I never really did do well with dualities... They just don't make sence to me...

You may not have struck with a strict pattern, but is was cohesive none the less, and obviously got the point across.

People understand dualities as absolutes. When I express either concern or non-understanding they get all confused about how I don''t see their "truth" to be self-evident and then try to convince me that they're right. When a person follows (or is claimed as kin by) a diety who has no real gender or species description (Loki - though it could be argued that species/gender aren't relavent with respect to gods at all), or who sees things as a continuous whole with variation, there's not going to be a rigid demarcation line down the metaphorical midline the universe.

Dualities are based on flawed logic which has it's root solely in gender perceptions, or rather the physiological manifestation, of the human body. If one looks at gene mapping, one sees that there is a wide diversity that is not commonly regarded amoungst most species, and that more often than is recognised, there are elements of both (wikipedia). Then again, we also know that with those who are transgendered, bi, and gay. Therefore, physiology doesn't really count for much so why base the "theory of everything" on it?